He is not a virgin, or is he?
Recently, I have been having doubts about the issue of virginity with my boyfriend of 14 months. He originally (when we were friends) said he was not a virgin, and he had, had a threesome with two girls who I know by name from campus, though not enough to reference if it happened or not. He even gave the details of where, when, and how it happened. Once we started dating we talked and I told him I was uncomfortable with him having sex with two girls at once to when he lost his virginity, while I value it very much. He then told me that it was only one girl and she made all the advances and "was on top, so I didnt do anything. That doesn't count as loosing it". Which I said it does, so he said that it was only sex and that if it ever happened with us, it would be our first time 'making love'. I was still upset by this, and when he found out I was he changed his story again saying he was a virgin and made it up so his friends would not think he 'wimped out' of the girl going as far as to hand him a condom and asking for it. I honestly don't know what to believe, he has assured me many times that he was really a virgin and I, for the most part, believe him but I still have my doubts and I'm not sure what to do or say about it. He gets mad whenever I try to bring it up and ask the reason why he lied to me twice, not just his friends. Any ideas on what I should do?