I like this guy and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not. He recently asked me if I would go out with him and his friends and he sometimes he puts kisses and sometimes he puts little faces blowing a kiss or with heart eyes. I really really like him and I've been texting him but I'm always the one to text him first but when I do we always text for ages. Today I text him and he didn't answer so I waited for 5 hours and then text him, on wattsapp you can see if sumone has read your message and he had but he didn't answer and now I feel like an idiot for texting him. I really really like him and I've liked him for ages!! Please HELP!!

How old are you?

Okay, boys are not confusing, they are simple creatures. He likes you. YOU may be the one confusing yourself. As I said, boys are simple : they will show you affection in interest but they will only continue if you send some back. I'm thinking your uncertainty (maybe coming from inexperience, which is fine) make you act a little too casual or only interested in being friends. So, flirt back! You'll see an immediate effect. Don't be afraid to look ridiculous "just in case he doesn't like me after all". He does, most likely. And, in any case, don't worry too much because nobody ever died of a deception.
Good luck!

I'm 13 and thanku for the advice :) I'll put way more kisses at the end of every text

You said you're the one always texting him first? Do you not think if he liked you he would be thinking about you and would want to text you? I may be wrong but I'm just saying not to get your hopes up because I was in the same position when I was younger.. I'm 15 now but I liked this one guy for 7 years and it taken me ages just to realise that he never liked me back.

I've always thought, if a guy liked you he'd tell you. Simple as. But just don't chase someone who isn't willing to chase you back, you don't want to come across as 'clingy' and you don't want to get hurt.

Whenever you see him flirt but don't change the way younare for a guy. Try be yourself but flirt hahaha.

I'm going through the same thing. Also I have to text or message him first. I decided to tell that I liked him since I had been waiting for a while to know whether he really liked me back. He told me that I would be a nic eperson to go out with but he like someone else. I told it's okay and we could still be friends. But since then it seems like he's been avoiding me online. He now takes a while to reply to my messages, sometimes he won't he even reply to until I send something else. When I get online and notice him online, just as I'm about to write to him , he's green light goes off and says he's offline. Is he avoiding because I'm condused? I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if I should ask him if he is avoiding me. :(

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Originally Posted by LeonaDy

Okay, boys are not confusing, they are simple creatures. He likes you. YOU may be the one confusing yourself. As I said, boys are simple : they will show you affection in interest but they will only continue if you send some back. I'm thinking your uncertainty (maybe coming from inexperience, which is fine) make you act a little too casual or only interested in being friends. So, flirt back! You'll see an immediate effect. Don't be afraid to look ridiculous "just in case he doesn't like me after all". He does, most likely. And, in any case, don't worry too much because nobody ever died of a deception.
Good luck!

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Please help me with my situation.

I feel like he's not putting any effort into this so just stop texting him for a week and see if he texts you back and if not then there's your answer.

I feel the same way!! Expect with me I text him first and sometimes he never replies! Maybe it was just a quick fling but the ignoring of texts gets better with time OK!! GOOD LUCK

good luck

Just don't text him and just let him chase you and if he does not chase you then fact is he don't like you but I'm sure there is hundreds bof other guys who like you, just wait and I promise the guy for you will soon be seen,trust me I know! Just don't give up:)