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  • Apr 16, 2011, 01:31 PM
    ColdWhysper
    I really think my boyfriend likes my best friend. What do I do?
    He's like my best guy friend and now he's my boyfriend (I think). I know he used to like my best friend because he told me and some other people. The first time he asked me out I said yes but almost everyone was against it so we just decided to be friends. Now I'm really not sure because he asked me if we are going out then I said its up to him, then whenever we chat he calls me his girlfriend and says I <3 u and even at school we always want to sit together and he put his arms around me. But no one knows were actually going out, they think we just like each other or just being playful. But lately when my best friend calls me she's texting him too and she was saying that he asked her who she likes and asked if she hates him because he used to like her. When she asked does he like me, he said I don't know.. then she forced him to answer and he said no. I'm so confused. I really think he likes her more than he likes me and I'm not even sure if we are going out. What should I do? :(
  • Apr 17, 2011, 12:18 AM
    Scleros

    Well, if his friends decide for him who he should be attracted to and can date... that's just pathetic. Leave the puppet alone and keep an eye out for a guy with his own backbone. Now, granted they are somewhat rare, but well worth the effort to subdue.
  • Apr 25, 2011, 06:34 PM
    liljayjay
    Confront the best friend vvvveeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyy nicely.about how she feels about him and see what she says.
  • Oct 8, 2011, 01:12 AM
    laura224
    Ok, your best friend obviously likes your boyfriend if she asked him all that. Your boyfriend says behind your back that he doesn't like you and your best friend tells you? Aren't you angry? I don't want to be mean but I think he's cheating on you so talk to him honestly and force words out like your best friend did
  • Oct 24, 2011, 09:18 PM
    lovelyhearts2
    About the same thing is happening to me, except he told me he used to like my best friend and she never told me anything about it, I've never cried for a guy before but rightnow I feel like breaking down in tears. I just can't believe my best friend wouldn't tell me something like this. And like he asked me if she talked about him , and he used to like her alott... like I don't think it's a good sign when he says that but I really like him though. Ughh I need so much help I'm 15 and I'm barely learning about dating and relationships so iguess that's why I'm reacting to this in this way but I need advice please :(
  • Nov 17, 2011, 03:09 PM
    Senela
    Well DAMN!
  • Nov 17, 2011, 03:12 PM
    Senela
    Fk the btich up.. (: SIMPLE?

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