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  • Apr 16, 2011, 11:13 AM
    donaldamanda16
    First time having sex and weirded ou by the after effects
    I had sex with my boyfriend on the 12th of April (unprotected but he pulled out and cummed all over my back) and then again had sex with 15th of April and I have been bleeding, blood clots, and cramps and it hurts when I pee I do believe that I am not pregnant but could I be and also I believe it is first sex with a UTI . I just need some some answers about this and also me not being pregnant
  • Apr 16, 2011, 11:40 AM
    JudyKayTee

    How old are you?

    Pulling out is the LEAST effective method of birth control so, yes, you could be pregnant.

    You could have an infection. You could have a sexually transmitted disease.

    It's pregnant, not pregnant. If you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to use proper English.
  • Apr 16, 2011, 11:45 AM
    donaldamanda16
    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    OK lady I'm 19, and he did pull out , and I was told that I have a UTI that why when I pee it hurts and he was big and he may have just torn my good that's y I'm bleeding and clotting but should I still take a home test?
  • Apr 16, 2011, 11:59 AM
    JudyKayTee

    Again - all you need is a drop of pre-***. Believe me or don't believe me.

    Sure, take a HPT when it's appropriate.

    Who told you that you have a UTI? Someone who tested you?

    I have no idea why you have the attitude you have - it's never a good idea to insult the very people who are trying to help you.

    See a Doctor.
  • Apr 16, 2011, 04:25 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    So you are old enough to know that pulling out is not a real method, there are plenty of sperm in early fluids and guys lie about pulling out in time ( a lot)
    But even if he pulled on "in time" there was already plenty of sperm given out to take care of making you pregnant.

    And drop the attitude, you are the one who has no idea about what it takes to get pregnant, beliving in some old teen age stories of set.

    So it could be several things,
    And yes it you were at a dotor or clinic that told you that you had an infection, they should have told you about the pregnancy risk
  • Apr 16, 2011, 05:34 PM
    DoulaLC

    You won't be able to know if you are pregnant or not until you are closer to when your next period would be due. It is best to wait and see if your period doesn't show up and test at that time if necessary.

    Certainly it could be a UTI, but as was said, if you haven't actually seen a doctor about that possibility yet, it would be wise to do so.

    The bleeding, clots, and cramping could likely just be from the recent sex.

    The withdrawl method takes a tremendous amount of control and trust. It frequently is not used correctly; this is why it is not considered to be a very effective form of birth control for most people.

    If you are concerned about getting pregnant, discuss better options and consider using two forms to lessen the odds even more. No form of birth control will be 100% effective. You take your chances every time you have sex, and even more so if relying solely on withdrawl.
  • Apr 18, 2011, 11:38 AM
    carmex

    It definitely sounds to me like you have UTI. Based on the description you provided about the position you were in while having sex and the symptoms of pain during urination.

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