Is it okay if you are in a committed relationship with a dude and both of you have a Facebook page but he is not willing to achknowledge that you are is girlfriend on there. Should I be concerned or should I just let it go and forget abou it?

Why are you making a deal of this?

If you've mentioned it to him and he is deliberately unwilling to claim you on his fb... then my assumption would be that isn't quite as committed as you may think that he is. I'd make it obvious on his wall, and be like "I LOVE YOU! HAPPY 10 MONTH ANNIVERSARY!" or whatever... lol

This should not bother you especially when this is social site.

He loves you and if he is committed then he will tell to all his close fnd but not necessiarly to everyone.

Just find out whether his close fnd knows about this..

How old are you?

Here's the thing: the younger generation does place emphasis on facebook/myspace statuses. Not everyone sees it as a big deal, but the vast majority does.

So, that being said, if you feel like the commitment is there in real life and the love is there in real life-then why worry? If his friends and family acknowledge the relationship for what it is-then why worry?

If this (the facebook) is among other red flags that he isn't committed, then maybe it's time to chat with him about what's going on in the relationship.

Good luck to you :)