We had been living together for 10 yrs, and its been almost a year since we broke up, we work together so we see each other daily. Sometimes she is very open and loving but at times very cold.At times she says she thinks of me and at times she is keeping her distance. She is not dating. Do I have any hope?

Why did you break up?

It's up to you if you want to ask her about getting back together or not,but I think it's time to close the book on this.

Getting over someone when you work together can be difficult,but if it has to be done,it has to be done.

Doesn't seem like it, and you both are probably healing from being together for so long, and having to see each other.

Its up to you to accept that you don't want another chance, so you can continue to get beyond this idea that there is hope.

I would imagine that it is over and the hope would be false at this point, from what you have written, sorry.

Anything is possible, but it really does seem improbable right now.

If you were together 10 years, why would you think things would change now if you were back together? Just be honest with yourself and try to remember why you broke up to start with and what you disliked about her and the old relationship... then that urge to reunite should fade away.

Hope is always there, but why wait for it? When you could be living your life and looking for the next chapter in your romantic book, why would you stop time for this female who has openly told you she doesn't want to be with you. Go find someone who does, time will heal the vacant room in your heart that you had separated for her.

Good Luck,
Javi