Am a Horrible Person-What do I do?
I've always been- to be blunt- a female player, you could say. I have played around (no sex, though) with a couple of guys. So here's the problem- I dated Guy 1, and we were both not serious at all so we both broke it off in around a week, and we were back to normal, and nobody knew about us. A couple of months later, I went out with Guy 2, who was, and still is, Guy 1's friend. He was quite serious, but I wasn't and didn't want to lead him on. We broke up after around a month. He became very messed up and I didn't go out with anyone for a year and a bit because I felt so guilty. Now, Guy 3 (last guy, don't worry) has asked me out. It just so happens that he is also Guy 1 and Guy 2's friend. I'm also good friends with him. I told him I would think about it but implied I would say yes. Now I feel terrible- I definitely don't want to hurt him and I'm scared that I might. Also I feel really guilty towards the previous guys, and I also don't want to risk my friendship with Guy 3. Do I have commitment issues- what do I do? I'm not even sure I like this Guy 3 a lot... How do I solve this problem without breaking another heart?
How do I tell him I've changed my mind..
A guy asked me out and I told him to give me a week to think about it. On that night, I called him and told him to ask me the next time he saw me, and not to worry, because I would give him "good news". Now, I'm not so sure I want to date him anymore, but he's a really shy guy and after basically telling him 'yes', I'm not sure how to tell him I don't want to go out with him anymore without breaking his heart or making him really angry. Tips?
P.S. He is also one of my close guy friends...