My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life. We foreplay then we have are usual intercourse, but lately I have notice that after he ejaculate and we wait a while to go for it again, the second time he gets aroused but after a while is soft again. I don't know if it has something to do with me but it has passed my mind quite a bit.

After sex, passionate or not, it's not incredibly easy to get aroused again. (takes me about an easy hour or two).

On rare occasions, if it is really passionate.. . It's less difficult. I would be happy he got it up the first time ;)

---btw, do NOT blame yourself for this. Don't get down, or upset for two reasons. . 1. It will most def. break the mood and 2. It is not your fault it won't come up.. . It's just difficult :)

It's not you. It's male biology.

The guy is pooped, and needs more time to recover. Nothing to do with you at all.

How old are you?

Its not you. It sounds like he is exhasted. Does he work? What kind of work? How many hours? What does he do when he is not at work.

All men are different.

Some can go for two or three or more.
98% need time to rest and recover unless
They are armed with the "Blue Steel" viagra.

I REPEAT::

HOW OLD ARE YOU?

ANY further posts until we have the OP's age will be deleted. You guys know better.

I am 18 years old and he is 20 years old. Currently he is unemployed but does do he job on the side. He looking for jobs and I am helping him, also we do study.

Thank you guys for the responses :-)