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  • Apr 10, 2011, 11:47 PM
    pandora8191
    Divorce and marriage issues
    My wife is trying to give up on our marriage an we have only been married for about 3 an a half months an we have a 3 month old baby boy, I'm trying to work this out with her but she wants to do a divorce. Do I have to sign the papers? Cause I want to work this out or what can I do to work something out, can I ask to the cort to make us try a marige consoler or something?
  • Apr 11, 2011, 03:51 AM
    ScottGem

    ANY question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area. Many areas have no fault divorce laws which make it easier to get a divorce. Some of those laws do require counseling before a divorce. So to answer your question we need to know the area.

    From the timing it sounds like you married because you got her pregnant. That is not a good basis for a marriage. Also, without knowing the background its harder to advise.
  • Apr 23, 2011, 11:34 PM
    melissa7294
    If you don't accept to sign the divorce paperwork, you may need a reason for not doing so. If she has proof of reasons she wants the divorce, and they are acceptable then it is necessary for you to be present at court. Absence will just corrupt everything. Your boy may be a good reason for you to change your life.
    Try different ways to get your wife back before winning the court or making changes to anything.
    Don't let yourself picture a bad future for your son, and refresh your life.
    Start by a vacation or something that may make her change the thoughts about this genre. If nothing changes, your wife may have a GOOD reason to leave.
    "this is my opinion, mostly when there is a child in between your life."
  • Apr 24, 2011, 04:27 AM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by melissa7294 View Post
    If you don't accept to sign the divorce paperwork, you may need a reason for not doing so. If she has proof of reasons why she wants the divorce, and they are acceptable then it is necessary for you to be present at court. absence will just corrupt everything. Your boy may be a good reason for you to change your life.
    Try different ways to get your wife back before winning the court or making changes to anything.
    Don't let yourself picture a bad future for your son, and refresh your life.
    Start by a vacation or something that may make her change the thoughts about this genre. If nothing changes, your wife may have a GOOD reason to leave.
    "this is my opinion, mostly when there is a child in between your life."

    This is the law board and we try to stick to the law when giving answers. Your answer isn't accurate so please pay attention before answering on this section of the board.

    At 3 months most likely there won't be a divorce. It would be an anullment. Also in the matter of divorce almost all states have "no fault" so it doesn't matter what the reason is a divorce can take place. The other party doesn't have to particpate either. It still can be done.
  • Apr 24, 2011, 09:10 AM
    melissa7294
    Comment on califdadof3's post
    Thanks for the correction
  • Apr 24, 2011, 10:05 AM
    melissa7294
    Comment on melissa7294's post
    OK stop the dislikes
    I'm sorry

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