Im 17 and I have a byfriend we have been together a year and a half now and she won't meet him.. ive met his parents and they are lovely but my mom hates him even though she's doesn't know him... My mother hasn't spoken to me in over a month now nearly and is always annoyed with me... im in my second last year of school so I have sooooooooo much homework... I could spend hours doing it.. she thinks I'm in my room talking to him when I'm not and I have to ask her to do or go ANYWHERE. I only get to see my boyfriend every couple of weeks when she lets me... ive tired talking to my dad and school councler but I just don't want to talk to her... I want to just move out and I would live to just rebel against her but I think it will just make things worse... I try to help her out as much as possible around the houe but she ignores everything I do... she thinks I'm not spending enough time with my friends but I go out and have school with them every day... what do I do?

What caused your mother's reaction? Your mother hasn't spoken to you in over a month because you see someone she's never met and doesn't like but you only see him every couple of weeks and you're a good student?

Something doesn't sound right.

it is completely random... she does it all the time but this has been the longest... I'm getting really tired of it all

Has she maybe heard some bad or worrying stories about your boyfriend around town? She sounds like she might be worried about you. There's one thing seeing your friends at school but how do they feel about you not seeing them out of school? Its very easy to forget about your friends when you get into a relationship, your mother might think it won't last and you will end up with no one.

She knows his family very very well. They only live down the road... she knows his parents and she's knows they are honest nice people... I do hang out with friends outside school.. wayyyy more than I see my boyfriend

she knows his family very very well. they only live down the road ...she knows his parents and shes knows they are honest nice people

So you have absolutely NO clue why she "hates" him?

This doesn't make sense. Everything you've said so far makes no sense.

No idea at all... I know it doesn't even make sense to me

She refuses to speak to you, but you know what she's thinking.

His parents are wonderful, but your mom hates their son.

You knock yourself out with chores, but your mom ignores you and doesn't appreciate you (and won't talk to you).

No, no sense.