How in the world are you supposed to get over someone that you love?:(

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Originally Posted by Magen_Marie15

How in the world are you supposed to get over someone that you love?:(

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How can you love somebody that does not love you and treats you like garbage.

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How can you get over love when it was not really love. You did not even know that person

Very long before he ended up in jail. You might have felt that way but

True love takes time and patience and two people communicating with each other. You

Never had that.

Joe

Going forward you don't put as much importance into them - yes the yare important - BUT they also on their own free will can leave.

If you're loving someone too much - well, that's very unhealhty.

You need A LOT of other things in your life - the one you love is onl you small part of your life - not your life. You make them your life and you WILL be in a lot of trouble.

You need work, friends, family, WORKOUTS, school, religion, hobbies, etc.

Go to this sight and it may set you straight - Love Tactics - Love Tactics Home

Read the free articles. Great stuff - dead on. REALITY - not fantasy, movie world.

Learn to love yourself first, and stay away from dead end jailbirds

Write out what it is that you didn't love about him. What annoyed you. What you didn't like.

Then vow to never find that in a guy again and stay true to yourself.

Time is a healer.
I know this probably sounds untrue to you but I've seen it.
My best mate was married for 14 years and she left him suddenly he was destroyed. As time went by he started to learn to love himself and now 1 year later he is the happiest man on earth and in LOVE again ;)

If you want the honest truth... find someone ten times hotter, haha.. no seriously, as bad as it sucks, finding another is usually the easiest and most quick solution...

Trust me, I'm there right now.. :(
<3

As chuff puts it... think about all the bad things they did to you or whatever u disliked about them, it'll be lot easier to accept that they are gone for all the good reasons. Meditation is another very effective tool that I've tried and felt at peace with myself. There is nothing in the world that is impossible... and if you truly want to move forward then looking back in the past is no solution... Time never stops.. life is moving fast... and so should you. What has gone... is dead... and loving a dead is mere fiction... so hun... enjoy the moment... there is whole life and beautiful moments ahead... which you will experience if you let your mind open to itself...