Hey,
So I'm a Canadian girl who met a German boy on a contract in Florida.. We lived and worked with internationals, and that's how I met him.. We made out one night at a party.. Nothing serious, and only had a few conversation afterwards.. When it was time for me to come back to Canada, he stayed in Florida cause his time isn't up yet. He started by sending me little Facebook chat messages to get me jealous that he was going out and doing things that I miss doing, or pretending I was still there and "we'll hang out". Little messages grew into conversations.. These conversations grew into constant talking (everyday, texting, and skyping) then few into me starting to fall for him.. from conversations, it seems mutual (he has told me he likes me, calls me honey, babe, etc.. ).. When he is done his contract, he says he's going to come and visit me before going home. And I am looking for a working visa in Europe, and hoping to leave latest, October.. My question is, what do I do? How to I tell him I honestly like him? How can I get it out of him that he -honestly, truely- likes me. If I could be his girlfriend right now, I would. I just need thoughts, and comments as to what I should do!

You calm down and see how it goes-if he does come to visit you.

As for working in Europe,if this is a longterm plan-fine,go ahead,but if you're just going to be closer to him,well-is that really smart?

Doesn't make a lot of sense to rearrange your life with a guy you are falling for through just on line communications. If that's all you want is a title, then you better talk about other things besides flirtatious chit-chat. Hardly enough to build, so keep being pen pals, chat buddies or whatever you are now until things get more serious, and he send some clear signals that's what he wants... a girlfriend. THEN you better find out what it means to be his girlfriend.

Be careful until its clear, that his words and actions match before getting carried away by a fantasy you are building through text, calls, or phone conversations. What if all this stranger wants is a booty call when he is in town 3 or 4 times a year, or a friend with benefits? What if you are only one of many he chats with?

Get facts before you give your heart.

Be honest and open about your feelings. He can only say yes, or no. I would rather put it out there, than play games and get my hopes up. That is just me.