**moved from Adoption**
I'm in the same boat.. only my ex left when my daughter was 11 months old. He has not seen her and she is now going on 12 years old. My husband wants to adopt my daughter but I have NO clue where my ex is or even how to attempt to find him to sign over rights and I don't think he will even though he has never really seen her. I'm lost and don't know what to do now...
