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  • Apr 7, 2011, 09:56 PM
    mluna17
    What does this mean ?
    Me and my boyfriend of 5 months just broke up awhile ago . His reasons were that he didn't want to fall in love or lead me on and that he was afraid of getting me pregnant . Well it just so happens that he says he still misses me and that he "wants" me bad but that would be leading me on... um help!
  • Apr 9, 2011, 03:35 PM
    jrsomello
    He's become attached and is afraid of allowing himself to become any more attached or vulnerable. This is a classic case. Unless he's practicing abstinance, the whole "i dont want to get you pregnant" thing is bullcrap. If he is sexually active then there's always a chance. But this is what you do, don't show your eagerness to get back with him. Let him know that him getting with you is not a revolving door and that maybe he should spend some time alone or away to think about what he really wants. And try to give hime space, wait for him to come to you. Remember, the one who cares less (or at least is good at making it look so) has more power. Good Luck
  • Apr 9, 2011, 08:46 PM
    talaniman

    His reasons don't matter at all because his words, and action don't match, so stop listening to his excuses.
  • Apr 9, 2011, 11:15 PM
    amicon

    He dumped you,why are you still talking to him?

    Don't fall for his c**p,ignore him.
  • Apr 10, 2011, 12:20 PM
    Homegirl 50

    He broke up with you using some lame excuse now he may miss you and wants a butty call.
    Leave him alone.

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