How can my Husband file for child abandonment?
This will be long so you know the details... 3 years ago my step-sons mother signed over her parental rights to the father (my husband) because she could not care for her son anymore due to her getting DUI's and doing pills. It was listed though on the court papers that she could have him every weekend... I know that sounds stupid on our part but it was the only way to get her to sign the papers w/out having to spend even more thousands of dollars to go to court... so she signed them. For the first month of course she did not get him every weekend like she was supposed to because she always had an excuse why she couldn't get him. So eventually she started getting him and it only lasted a couple of weekends. Then the day after her b-day we got him back and the guy who's house she was staying at had contacted my husband asking him if he had talked to her and he said no, so that's when we knew she wasn't going to have a stable place to stay and she contacted my husband the next weekend and she was told that she wasn't going to get him because she didn't have a job to pay for his food and she didn't have anywhere to stay. So after that we didn't hear anything from her for months. We then find out she tried to commit suicide and was placed in a mental home and was released a month later and moved to a diff state. On top of that she had missed a court date and had a warrant out for her arrest and then also had gotten another DUI in the state she ended up moving to. She has tried contacting my husband but my husband ignores her and now its been 2 years since she seen her son. She has taken other trips to other states for vacation but has never attempted to come back here to even see her son. She will contact my husband about every 4-5 months but that's it she won't try any other means to see her son but a text message. How can my husband file for child abandonment w/out really having to go to court? Also keep in mind when she text's my husband she NEVER asks if she can see her son she only asks how is he doing.