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  • Apr 7, 2011, 04:52 AM
    ilovehimsomuch
    Can pre-ejaculate cause pregnancy? I'm still confused..
    Me and my boyfriend did it last Saturday. But before that, he last ejaculated last Friday and then urinated many times and then didn't ejaculated again until after we did it. He even urinated right before we had sex. When he was about to put his inside me he first wiped the pre-ejaculate before his went in and it was like less than a minute and he already pulled out and we're already finished. Im scared I'm still 16. Is there a possibility I could get pregnant? *** answeeer.. *** help me our parents will kill us.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 04:56 AM
    tickle

    Yes, pre-ejaculate can cause pregnancy.

    Tick
  • Apr 7, 2011, 05:35 AM
    J_9

    Absolutely! Even the birth control pill or condom, or both are not always 100% effective.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 06:10 AM
    ilovehimsomuch
    Even if he urinated right before we did it and wiped his penis before his went in? I'm so scared
  • Apr 7, 2011, 06:12 AM
    ilovehimsomuch
    Can you tell its rate of pregnancy?
  • Apr 7, 2011, 06:35 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ilovehimsomuch View Post
    even if he urinated right before we did it and wiped his penis before his went in? im soo scared

    Yes, it still can happen as the pre-ejaculate will come out AFTER he urinates when his penis is erect.

    The percentage of pregnancy is next to impossible to define as it would have to deal with your time during your cycle, i.e. where are you in your cycle as far as ovulation is considered?

    Darlin' I am going to tell you honestly. I am a labor and delivery nurse, but I am also a mother. I took the birth control pill faithfully AND used a condom every time I had intercourse (I was married), and got pregnant not once, but twice.

    If you are not ready to be a parent you should rethink having sex. If you insist on having sex, at least use protection.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:05 AM
    ilovehimsomuch
    We did it on the 22nd of my cycle.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:08 AM
    ilovehimsomuch
    What am I going to do? I don't know wkat to do anymore. *** hellpp
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:09 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ilovehimsomuch View Post
    we did it on the 22nd of my cycle.

    That means very little to me.

    You are now playing the waiting game. You have to wait to see if your period comes when it is supposed to. If not, wait a few days to see if it comes. If it doesn't take a HPT using first morning urine.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 04:37 PM
    ilovehimsomuch
    My period is supposed to be yesterday because I follow the 27 days more or less but I didn't get my period yesterday. Any other advices ma'am? I'm really scared. *** help me.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 04:53 PM
    ilovehimsomuch
    I almost forgot. When his penis went inside, it bled but it wasn't our first time to have sex. Do you know why?

    And what do you mean "that means very little to me"? I didn't quite understand the meaning of that.

    *** answer J_9 you are the only one who can help me with this.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 06:48 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    It means that you can not tell from what day it was. What is being said, is that yes of course you could be pregnant, and it is obvious that you were listening to some good myths about birth control, and nothing about real birth control,
    Even a condom would have helped a lot.

    But now you have to wait to see what happens,
  • Apr 7, 2011, 06:56 PM
    Wondergirl

    If you slide through this time without getting pregnant, remember for the future that

    sex = pregnancy

    Plus, your birth control information is totally incorrect.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:03 PM
    J_9

    Honey, you being on day 22 really means nothing.

    In the end, you had unprotected sex. Withdrawal should NEVER, EVER, be considered a form of birth control.

    You now have to wait to see if your period comes.

    Again, take this as a lesson. Sex=pregnancy. If you are not ready to be a parent abstain from sex. If you are going to have sex no matter what we have told you here, use birth control, multiple forms of birth control preferably.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:16 PM
    ilovehimsomuch
    So the rate of pregnancy in my case is quite next to impossible?

    Yes I would surely never ever do it again. Thank you so much for your advices. Any other advice on what I'm going to now?
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:20 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    No, no one said, ( next to impossible) every one is saying very possible.

    I mean it is not 100 percent, but no one can say a percent,

    We are saying you did almost nothing as for as real birth control, you merely followed a bunch of silly grade school beliefs that any adult knows has no bearing on real birth control.

    What we are saying is yes of course you could be, and you will not know till you wait and see if you have your period or not
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:23 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ilovehimsomuch View Post
    so the rate of pregnancy in my case is quite next to impossible?

    That's not at all what I said. What I said was that it IS possible!
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:30 PM
    ilovehimsomuch
    OK thank you I'm really scared now.

    What is the most accurate way to determine the pregnancy?
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:31 PM
    J_9

    You now have to wait to see if your period comes. If not, you will have to take a HPT using first morning urine.
  • Apr 7, 2011, 07:46 PM
    ilovehimsomuch
    OK thank you so much. I did not want this to happen, we really didn't. I cry a lot and pray to God everyday. I hope I'm not pregnant. I'm so down now.

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