My little sister is going to be 16 next month. Her father and our mother had recently gotten divorced. They didn't go to court or anything, just filed through a lawyer. There were no legal documents of any sort of custodial rules or guidelines. She lives with her father, but she wants to move in with our mother. Her dad, however, won't let her do so. She has to fight with him just to get him to allow her to see my mother on weekends. Is it not her right to decide which parent she wants to live with without any problems or court-related situations?