My dad thinks I have only kissed my boyfriend once! Uh is that even possible! Hey we've sneaked a couple kisses through out our 11 month relationship. Next month it'll be 2 yrs! I'm 14 but and turning 15 in sept. He says that I'm not ready and blah blah. Hey I'm not planning on having sex anytime soon! I think that's the problem with him. He says that a kiss turns to something else. And that something else will turn to something else. But we(me & my bf) never really have alone time. So is it even possible to have sex? Nahhh. Can a father please explain to me why you dad's don't allow your daughters to kiss their boyfriend?

Kisses often do turn into other things

Sounds like a wonderful loving father who wants to be sure you grow up without getting pregnant.
And 14, sorry agree with dad at this point

Your in an 11 month relationship and next month it will be 2 years?
Spend more time on your school work than kissing boys. Your dad is only looking out for you, he knows the way young teenage boys think!

I am a dad (three daughters) and was a 14 ye old boy once.
(a long long time ago)

You won't like this, but your dad is right. And even if he trusts you , it is the 14 yr old boys he doesn't trust because he was one once too.
We , as fathers, know the mind of a 14 yr old male.

It is because he loves you and wants you to be safe and happy. ( Safe first.) that he makes rules.
If he didn't care about you , he might not say anything.

Be happy with him like he is,. my daughters boyfriends at 14 were afraid to get within 2 blocks of our house.
I was not subtle or polite at that time and I would have a chat with the boys they didn't forget.
My daughters did not like me too much at that age.

I'm not a dad but I'm a mum and my daughter is 14, and she actually asked me if kissing was OK, and I told her yes its fine as long as that's all you do kiss hug and hold hands, no further, your old enough to be responsible but, don't break your dads rules , that's all I ccan say :)

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Originally Posted by joygregson13

im not a dad but im a mum and my daughter is 14, and she actually asked me if kissing was ok, and i told her yes its fine as long as thats all you do kiss hug and hold hands, no further, your old enough to be responsible but, dont break your dads rules , thats all i ccan say :)

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How old were you when you had your daughter? 5? In another post you are 19. Lying doesn't work at this site!