My best friend confess that he loves me . He shocked me I didn't know what to say I just walked away . He told me all he's felling for me that he will be so happy if I was his girl but I don't know what to do I love him so much I don't want to lose him I need him in my life I'm afraid that if I said yes and something bad happened between us and broke up I lose him forever and another big problem I still have only one year and I well move to another city far from this one what if I fall in love with him and I had to go I don't think that I'm that strong to let go and move on I don't think that I'm strong enough to let him as best friend .

Hansasa you really need to use more punctuations! How old are you?

I'm sorry I'm just so nervous. I'm 18 years old .

No problem :) so you fear you might fall for him? Is this the same guy? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/crush-565508.html

No that one he turns to be a big jerk . But this one he is my best friend he always been next to me, I really don't know what do!!

I forgot I talked to him on Facebook and he told me that if I said no I have to let him go, but I said no what ever happened I won't let you go but he answered me with you have to because (I will be suffering next to you) I really need some help .

Lol calm down! Why do you need to do anything though? Don't feel pressured to respond to what he said. The guy has probably been in limbo for days wondering if he should tell you or not, so he would have been going through all kinds of reactions in his head.

What if you fall in love with him? Why do you think you will? You have a whole year to go through the motions and there's no point in panicking over it now, you will cross that bridge when you get there.

If you want to give things a go with him just go with the flow, keep being his friend, tell him your flattered by what he said and that your not quite there yet. By the time you move things might have ended, if not, then you'll be 19 and free to travel and visit each other..

Thanks a lot that's what I did really need to hear I'll do what you just told me. But I live in morocco so I'm not allowed to move out from my parents house in tell I get married but this is life! I just have to have some faith . Thanks <3

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thanks a lot that's what i did really need to hear i'll do what u just told me. but i live in morocco so i'm not allowed to move out from my parents house in tell i get married but this is life!! i just have to have some faith . thanks <3

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I'm not suggesting you leave you family home but if things go well with this guy then you could both visit each other, speak on skype when your apart and take trips together, its not the end all if you move away. Anyway its very early days, like I said, don't feel pressured and stop panicking ;) good luck

Thank you so much you did help me a lot <3 <3 :D