OK I have been dating this guy. And things were really going smooth, but then one day he went to a party, and he saw this girl who moved away a month earlier. And I guess they danced and stuff. Well Sunday he was fine then Monday he was acting weird, when I asked him what was wrong he kept saying nothing, and finally I dragged it out. He told me that when he saw this girl tina, the feelings he had for her came back. But he says he still loves me and that he doesn't no what he wants right now, but I will be able to get back with him one day... I need to no how to get him back sooner... I love this guy to death!! :confused: :(

He sounds rather confused and I detect a sign that he might want to keep you on the backburner (so to speak) a kind of back up plan if things don't work out with what he is doing. I would advise that you just give him as much space as possible, this means no contact in any way, shape or form. You can't force someone to want to be with you but maybe time without you in his life will make him miss you. No guarantees!

It concerns me somewhat that he says you may get back together but not right now. Does he expect you to just wait around as plan B all you life?

Beware and think twice, no 3 times when some one finds some one else and tells you he MAY be back some day. Either he thinks your dumb enough to let him do his thing and maybe find time to come back or he is too confused about his own feelings to be a good partner. Do NOT wait for his brain to clear. As much as you may care he does NOT. Find some one who you can trust and enjoy, you deserve better.