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  • Apr 1, 2011, 08:19 AM
    Namdaed
    I am wondering
    Is there a natural occurrence that can eliminate all of a woman's natural vaginal scent?
  • Apr 1, 2011, 09:28 AM
    tickle

    No. Unusual question. Why do you ask ?
  • Apr 1, 2011, 10:51 AM
    Namdaed
    I ask because I am in a relationship and I have been suspicious of another man for some time, but two weeks ago she got home from work told me she was eager to have sex but had to meet her girlfriend who is her trainer, at the gym first. She went to the gym, came back her clothes had no sweat marks or stains and after a little bit of acting like a suck or that she had done something wrong we had sex. I like the smell she leaves on me and enjoy grabing my cock after sex and getting her smell on my hand and laying there with my hand near my nose and this time there was no smell at all, (the only time there was no smell) we have been having sex at least once a day since we started dating, and I had a vasectomy years ago and we have never used a spemicide or condom or anything of the sort. What are your thoughts? Thanks again.
  • Apr 1, 2011, 11:52 AM
    JudyKayTee

    My thought is that she either showered or showered and douched or didn't work out.

    You're in a relationship which includes sex. Ask her.

    What does "... acting like a suck" mean?
  • Apr 1, 2011, 12:04 PM
    Namdaed
    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    Well she did not shower, she has never douched and my ex wife did and there was always a scent and or taste from the douche. I did ask her and she says that she went to the gym. As for the acting like a suck, I mean that she was very somber and could not look me directly in the eyes for more than a few seconds, like I told her I was waiting in bed naked ready for her return and she laid on the covers for almost an hour before she touched me and got naked. I am quite sure there is something going on but am now just starting to put in the effort to find out the truth.
  • Apr 1, 2011, 12:15 PM
    tickle

    To answer your question truthfully, and not trying to aid and abet anyone, but if she didn't have her normal scent, then she did something that eliminated her natural scent. There is nothing natural that can eliminate it, either by douching or spraying something around her vaginal area; a woman's scent is her signature so to speak.

    Of course, I would suggest you to try to communicate with her to eliminate your doubts, get to the bottom without causing harm to you or her.

    I don't like these situations where one or the other are suspicious. It always leads to bad feelings if a compromise in understanding can't be reached. But then again, your question was about a woman's scent, not your relationship problems.

    Tick
  • Apr 1, 2011, 12:35 PM
    Namdaed
    Comment on tickle's post
    I thank you for both your answer and your candor. I do not feel that there are relationship issues as I have only lied to her once and it ate me alive and I told her the truth hours later and she maintains that she has never lied to me. I have spoken to her about my fears and the conversation always gets put to the side burner and after the gym thing I have began to look closer at the relationship and all aspects of it.
  • Apr 1, 2011, 01:49 PM
    tickle

    I am assuming you are are from different cultures? Is this so and what country do you both live in.


    Tick

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