I just got charged with violating a visitation court order ,my son who lives with his dad told me he doest hve no heat at his house for more than a month ,so I kept him one extra day so I could take him to talk to a soc worker abourt this and other issues and now I'm charge with this I don't know what to do please help ,the detective that handdled my case said to go to court om Monday and turn myself in , I don't got enough time to get an attorney ,and I'm worried cause I got two smaller children of my own what can I do .