If it's that bad then why not simply break up with them. Cheating would be mush worse, especially if it's only over sex.

Would like you help figuring out how to improve your relationship with your boyfriend or have you given up?

If you want help, more background information such as ages and a general idea of the relationship would be very helpful.

If you have given up and don't want to try any more, get out of the relationship, heal and find someone who you can build a full and healthy relationship with.

Cheating is never a good solution to any problem.

Think about it. Once you started playing games with another person where would it end? How many 'surrogates' would you go through before your boyfriend found out and dumped you? If you became involved with only one person, then why live two lives? If you go from one person to another, how scared of sexually transmitted diseases are you or how about knowing who the father of any babies that might result is? (No form of contraception/birth control is 100% effective.)

Don't allow frustration to cause you to do things that you know aren't good or healthy.

Do not cheat. I don't know how long you guys have been together but that is not the answer. Certain things you can't go back on. Tell him how you feel! If my boyfriend cheated on me just for sex I would be hurt, however if he caried on an emional relashionship outside of ours and cheated on me that way it would hurt me so much more. You only seem to want the sex and I feel like that can be fixed.

Talk to him

I agree with the others.

I DON'T condone cheating, no matter what the situation is. If you are unhappy , then it should start with communication.

Have you even sat down and talked to him about this?

If so, then what is his answer? Is he going through anything that would cause him to stop having sex?

How long has this been going on? Was he like this from the beginning?

I mean... really, are YOU even giving him the benefit of the doubt that something MIGHT be wrong with the poor guy?

Cheating ISN'T going to do anything, except HURT him. God forbid you catch something and pass it to him. Do you think that's fair?

Do you think that's right?

If you are unhappy with anything, then tell him. If he doesn't change, then break up with him.

Communicate all of this with him.

So... to answer your question, NO. Please don't cheat.

Does all of this make sense?

I agree with Curlybed. I would much rather being dumped instead of blatenly cheated on for sexual reasons

Honesty is always the best policy.

If you are not happy with him tell him. \
It may be something you can work out,
If you feel like trying to save the relationship.


How old are you both?
How long have you been together?

We need age verification to continue with addressing the sex issue.

How about resolve the issue and find a new boyfriend if you aren't completely happy with this one.

Its obvious there are compatibility issues.

Cheating is NEVER the answr. And honesetly in my own opinion, HE would be better off without someone who's first thought in response to difficultys is to cheat.

If you don't want to find out WHY his sex drive is so low, try to HELP him, or even simply self stimulate when he is not in the mood, then really, just break up with him.