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  • Mar 27, 2011, 11:34 PM
    BabyMamaBri
    15 & Pregnant
    I'm 15 but I'm turning 16 in 2 months.
    I had sex with a guy that I've been involved with since 7th grade for the first time, I am on a low dose of birth control pill but just to regulate things and since I wasn't planning on sex I didn't take it regularly.
    I don't know what to do, I am not even a month along, I know my options and right now I want my baby.
    The father, who I'm still with, is going off to Army camp this summer and next summer in 2 different states, then he'll be going to afghanistan for 14 months. I don't wnt to have to burden him with this but I do know I have to tell him. I just don't know how to tell my parent's that I'm not a virgin anymore let alone pregnant.
    Any advice?
  • Mar 28, 2011, 12:26 AM
    Johny2010
    So... Fist Do you have pregnant now??
    Do you tell your boyfriend??
    Hey,, you are just 16... very dangerous to hold your pregnant...
    Tell your parents... they might give you many advices... Don't scared to tell your parents about u... I think they will forgive you.. because you are their daughter...

    I don't know what advice to give you...
    Sorry for my bad English because I am Japanese... Hey... Have a good time.. I wish
  • Mar 28, 2011, 12:31 AM
    adviceishere
    Well if you want to keep your baby you need to tell them asap! You also need to start taking folic acid for the first 3 months of your pregnancy to prevent spina bifida in your baby (very important for development) you can get them in your pharmacy, I suggest you get them now!

    Hey look, there's no easy way of telling your folks, your 15, they're going to freak out, I suggest you sit them both down and explain your situation, no doubt there will be tears flowing from all corners but the sooner you tell them the better, then you can get things in action, visit your doctor etc, your parents can tell you all the rights and wrongs on why keeping your baby is going to be extremely hard!

    All you can to is prepare for the reaction they will have, and as for your boyfriend, you don't want to burden him? HA! This is just as much his problem as it is yours, why should he be spared any hardship.

    Good luck in the future and please tell your folks asap.
  • Mar 28, 2011, 04:02 AM
    ScottGem

    Are you sure you are pregnant? How old is your boyfriend? What state do you live in?

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