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  • Mar 27, 2011, 11:33 PM
    youngandafraid
    Help please I'm scared
    10 days ago my fiancé and I had sex ofcoarse we used protection but I'm not on the pill. 2 days later I caught a stomach virus from my sister. I did not use anti-biotics. But now I'm scared because my period is late. My periods are usually predictable. Ive never missed one since I've began menstrating. Could I be pregnant or could the virus be delaying my period. I haven't tried anything cause I don't know what to do
  • Mar 28, 2011, 12:13 AM
    Johny2010
    First, I want to tell u.. I am not a doctor . But I know about it because I am interested in medicine and studying right now.
    About your problem ,
    I think it does not matter for you if you are in pregnant or not because he is your fiancé... One day you will marry him,right?

    The menstruation and stomachache is not related.. don't care about it...

    My suggestion is that you should tell your fiancé about that... If he really love you, he will welcome about your future pregnant because of his pregnant...
    Don't be scared...

    Sorry: I know my English is bad because I am Japanese... still studying English...
    Have a nice day!
  • Mar 28, 2011, 12:21 AM
    youngandafraid
    Comment on Johny2010's post
    True but we are not finacially ready for a child and we can't handle that right now in this economy plus I'm still young and I just started college
  • Mar 28, 2011, 12:41 AM
    Johny2010
    Comment on Johny2010's post
    So what u want to do??
  • Mar 28, 2011, 03:53 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by youngandafraid View Post
    but we are not finacially ready for a child and we can't handle that right now in this economy plus im still young and i just started college

    Then you should not be engaging in sexual intercourse. NO ONE should be doing that until they are physically, emotionally and financially prepared to have a child.

    The likelihood is that a the virus may be disrupting your period. But there is no way for ANYONE to know. What you can do, is wait another few weeks. If your period still hasn't come then take a home pregnancy test.
  • Mar 28, 2011, 04:39 AM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by youngandafraid View Post
    10 days ago my fiance and i had sex ofcoarse we used protection but im not on the pill. 2 days later i caught a stomach virus from my sister. I did not use anti-biotics. But now im scared because my period is late. My periods are usually predictable. Ive never missed one since ive began menstrating. Could i be pregnant or could the virus be delaying my period. i havent tried anything cause i dont know what to do


    How late is late? It may be due to the illness, it may simply be that your period is off this cycle and will show up late, you may even skip a cycle now and then. Remember that no birth control is 100% effective, so pregnancy will always be a possibility when you have sex.

    As ScottGem said, give it a bit more time... if still no period, try a pregnancy test. If it is negative, see what happens when your period would be due next month.
  • Mar 28, 2011, 04:59 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    As you should well know, since you are old enough to be engaged and you are having sex. No form of birth control is 100 percent, if your protection is condoms the normal stats are they have a 3 percent failure rate when used as told. And about a 10 percent failure rate over all since many do not use properly.

    So if you are having sex, of course you could be pregnant

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