Within this past year I got a new boyfriend. When we first got together we couldn't get enough of each other and would have sex all the time. Orgasming was never really a problem for him and because he only thought we would be a fling he didn't really care whether he was giving me an orgasm or not. I didn't care either because the sex was excellent. Now, half a year into our relationship he is becoming bothered that I never orgasm for him. Its not just him I can't orgasm with, I have never orgasmed with another man. I should repharase that... I have never orgasmed with ONLY a man. I can only 'come' with a vibrator. We have used toys in our routine and I loose it with them but even by myself I have never been able to loose it with out one. PLEASE HELP. I want to loose it by myself and with my man ON MY OWN WITHOUT A TOY.

You and maybe 1/2 the women out there, First be glad if he takes time to use toys or other methods to be sure you do.
Have you done this as fore play before you start the other parts of sex ?

Has he tried some of the rings and things that help in stimulation

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Age please, I have a possible answer for you but I can't give it until you answer about age