My boyfriend of 5 years won't have sex with me anymore
I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been together for 5 years, we live together, we were each other's firsts. He has had sex with another girl after we were dating for 3 years but they never dated and we broke up for a couple months. He WAS addicted to porn. He says he hasn't cheated on me since, I have not cheated on him once whether it be kissing or sex, or porn or anything. At the start of our relationship all we did was have sex, when we moved in together the sex slowed down a little. Now I have the beg for sex.. and I still don't get it. In the past 4 months we had sex once, and he was drunk. He is a great boyfriend who made one mistake, he is very supportive. And is sweet to me, the only problem now is that we don't have sex, we talk about it and plan too, but he ALWAYS ends up falling sleep before we get to do anything. I was starting to think that it was the way I looked but he assures me that I look beautiful everyday. This is really hurting myself esteem, and I don't know how much more I can take. People say sex isn't important, but in ways it's very important. Help me, I need to know what's going on with my boyfriend and how I can change or get him more excited about having sex.