How would you treat a friend who always cancels at the last minute?
A bit upset even though I haven't expressed my annoyance with the person I'm upset with. The problem is that lately, she's been making plans and then cancelling at the last minute. She's been doing this for almost a year now, and I'm rather surprised at my own patience in having dealt with her and her cancellations.
I've been making plans with her - sometimes months in advance, and then she cancels at the last minute. I kid you not - it's been about 10 times this year already.
How would you guys answer to this? Whether her reasons are real or not, I'm becoming suspicious because she does this ALL the time.
At this point, I feel like walking away from her, and never responding back to anything that she does or says. I really do feel this way right now. I don't see how anyone can be so disrespectful. I don't think that she's doing this because it's ME per se, but because I think that she's having other "better" things come up - I don't know -maybe like hooking up with dates from online sites, etc.
She's done it again just now. Two weeks ago, we made plans to go somewhere, and she cancelled out, but decided to reschedule - and well, the rescheduling was for today. So guess what? Just now she cancelled out again!
I was so close to replying to her with a sarcastic email, but I had great patience in not doing that.
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That person who was shunning me before and I are no longer friends. I'm really reevaluating all these people. Makes no point in me keeping people in my life who seem selfish.