Hello, for three years now I have been supporting my girl in canada. I love in trinidad. She grey up in trinidad but was born in canada. Anyway, three years ago she wanted to move back to canada to start studies. I have been supporting here ever since and she usually visits me in Trinidad a few times a year. Actually we got engaged in 2008 when she came back to trinidad, after going to canada to settle in. now after all the years and money I spent to support her, she wants to break it off. What can I do to recover anything, since she apparently played me for money using my emotions to her advantage. What can I do?

Unfortunately there is probably nothing you can do since it is not considered a loan and you gave her the money willingly. Unfortunately some people don't care who they use to get what they want. Consider it a the price you pay for being rid of her.

Hmm, just this christmas past she picked out a brand new engagement ring. :(