I don't know him... why don't you ask him. He might not read this thread.

Probably

What upgrades, and who is he,

No, he does not - he thinks paying for upgrades is your responsibility.

For the guys out there. ;)
David Tutera's My Fair Wedding

I just assumed that the upgrades were largely provided free to both David & the bride by the sponsors. Ever notice how many times he'll plug the linen vendor or bakery? I bet they donate goods & services to the show in the name of mass marketing.

So this thread is an ad?