Should I meet her? Can opposite sex be platonic friends?
Last year, I fell in love with this girl and confessed to her. However, at that same time, she already had someone else in mind. We still went out very often and could talk for hours. I just felt that she was the one and had the feeling that I could actually die for her. It was that strong. One day, seeing her with the guy, I had never felt so sad before. However I couldn't move on and still continued contacting her.
She only treated me as a good friend, wanted to be good friends and said that there was no chemistry but I treated her more than that. After some time, she and the boy she really loved totally broke off contact. She was devastated and I was always there for her. Now that she's back on her feet and got into her first job, doing well in life, I am really happy for her.
And so I tried to move on. Months passed and we seldom contact anymore. Recently, she told me that she has become rather close with another guy. Even though I always tell myself to move on since she will never be the one for me, she asked me out for a movie and I agreed. After we parted that day, the feelings came back and I really miss her.
I still want to move on and dun want to be hurt again. I think its weird that I go out with her because of my feelings for her but she insists that its not weird, and that I'm weird for thinking that way.
I find it tough to be platonic friends and am trying to forget her.
Should I meet her if she asks me out again?