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  • Mar 21, 2011, 07:42 PM
    belieber31
    What do I do with my friend who stole my boyfriend?
    I'm 13 and I was dating this guy I really liked and then after about a week we broke up. He did the whole oh it's not you it's me thing (cheap right)and then the next thing I know my so called friend is going out with him! I just couldn't believe it when she said that she was only going out with him because she felt bad. And then the next day I caught her making out with one of her ex's!! What am I supposed to do about this friend??
  • Mar 21, 2011, 07:53 PM
    Wondergirl

    This is what happens when one is 13. Exclusive relations and "breaking up" are not a good idea; going out as a group is much better with no exclusivity.

    What you want to do right now is get to know lots of guys and all their quirks/weirdnesses, so you will be in a good position to end up with a winner when you're an adult.
  • Mar 21, 2011, 08:43 PM
    Stringer

    Quote:

    quirks/weirdnesses
    This goes both ways my friend, both ways... :)

    OP WG is correct listen to her please. And this girl is not a friend, another way to learn about people is to experience how they are.
  • Mar 22, 2011, 12:34 PM
    sharper11
    Find a new friend. She broke "Chick-Code" rule #1. Do not date a Friends Ex (I'm almost certain this is a Bro-Code Rule also).

    --- Ask yourself if you would have done the same thing. Probably not right. . So why let someone do that to you.
  • Mar 22, 2011, 12:39 PM
    southamerica

    Wondergirl is absolutely correct. You, your ex, and your friend are all getting used to these adult-like hormones and emotions. If your friend's actions make you feel betrayed or uncomfortable, then find a new friend. Having an exclusive relationship is most likely going to be confusing and dramatic at your age, and hanging out in large groups of friends is a great way to get to know friends of both genders.

    Just stay true to yourself and what your conscience tells you!

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