Both myself and my second wife are being harassed by my first wife this is going on for about 25 years it is always about money I support her and did pay all moneys to my 2 children who are now 38 and 32 we will never be free of her is there anything we can do

Cut her off completely and request no more contact. Limit it to a business relationship when you have to for the kids. If they try to contact you after you have asked them not to get a restraining order. Its over and been over for a long time. She needs to get over it already.

Why are you supporting her ?

Because in ireland an ex wife can obtain maintenance for herself my husband was employed by law inforcement

There is a maintenance order out against me for 27 years for her, this is not the order taken out for my then children She went through the courts to get it done and because I was employed by the law I have to pay until either she or me dies

In the States we call it spousal support.

So the pay is set up to go to her, and you have no reason to even have to talk to her,

Don't allow her to cause trouble, if she calls, hang up, if she comes over, tell her you will call the police if she does not leave

Don't read any text or emails and just let her get over it

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

In the States we call it spousal support.

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Not everywhere... It is from Texas:
Sec.A8.001.DEFINITIONS. In this chapter:
(1)"Maintenance" means an award in a suit for
Dissolution of a marriage of periodic payments from the future
Income of one spouse for the support of the other spouse.

Thank you to all for your answers but we must now go to court to get away from her she is a very dangerous person