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  • Mar 19, 2011, 09:36 AM
    maheswari.....
    My husband shouted on me in first night that I don't know any thing about sex
    Am married recently(one week before) my husband is shouted on me in first night that I don't know any thing about sex and he is comparing me with some other girls.

    What I have to do with him?


    Please help me
  • Mar 19, 2011, 09:48 AM
    Wondergirl

    That's a good thing that you don't know anything. Then he can teach you all the ways to please him. You don't have to "unlearn" anything.

    Is there a library near you? If you are in the U.S. the Dewey number 612 is where the sex books are. Many have photos and drawings. Check out one or two and read them with your new husband. He should be very proud of you!
  • Mar 19, 2011, 12:01 PM
    talaniman

    You tell him next time he raises his voice to you for any reason, you will shove a broom stick up his a$$, and that will be the only sex he will ever get from you. And if he mentions any other female other than his mama in your home, you will cut his balls off.

    That's what you do with him, so he will properly know how to treat the QUEEN of his house. Anything less is totally unacceptable!!
  • Apr 3, 2011, 11:09 AM
    0rphan
    How dare he talk to you in that manner... shame on him for bragging about his other women to his new wife.
    He should thank his lucky stars that other men cannot bragg about you to him.You must not stand for this make that plain NOW at the start of your married life together,for it will only get worse if you don't speak up and defend yourself.

    Tell him he is not worthy of your love and that he must earn respect by treating you with the respect you deserve,otherwise you can see no future together.

    The sexual side of a marriage is something that you learn together by experimenting with various ways of pleasing each others sexual needs and desires,letting your husband/wife know what is pleasing to both of you, this should lead to a happy healthy sex life.

    Marriage is not only about sex, it's about having trust, understanding, loyalty, someone there to lean upon when your feeling down giving you support,respect for each other.All of these things and many more are the very foundation for a loving lasting future together... sex is the icing on the cake.

    I wish you goodluck and happiness.

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