My dad knows my boyfriend because he had him in class but he doesn't know that he is my boyfriend. Then my mom doesn't know him but she knows he's my boyfriend. Both his parents know about us. And we want to go to the movies and his parents are cool with it but I'm to nervous to ask my mom. She says I can have a boyfriend but can't date. So I know she will say no to the movies if the my boyfrinds mom will be there. What should I do? Ask?r wait until my mom and his mom have meet and stuff?

How old are you and your boyfriend? And when did your mother say you could date? Was it a year or two ago or recently? Because if it was some years ago she might have a different opinion now that your older, if she knows your boyfriend and likes him and knows you guys will be safe going to and from the cinema she also might be OK with it, but please don't sneak around because they're are so many girls on this that have done this and are no longer allowed see their boyfriends

We are both 15. My mom said I couldn't date, but that was a few months ago. And she hasn't met my boyfriend. My dad has but he doesn't know hey boyfriend & my mom hasn't met him but she knows he's my boyfriend. An I we go to re movies his mom will be with us.

Should I ask my mom if I can go & tell her she can talk to his mom. Or should I just have my bfs mom call & talk to my mom & tell my mom who it is & why right before I hand her the phone.

How can you have a boyfriend if you can't date? Anyway, I think you should just tell your parents. I know I am going to sound like a total dork when I say this, but honesty is the best policy. The worst that can happen is that you won't be able to date and then you can try sneaking out for dates (I am contradicting myself). I am guessing you probably can't drive, so you guys may be able to walk like to a park for a picnic on your dates.

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Originally Posted by jokerlaugh

Should i go ahead and ask my mom if I can go & tell her she can talk to his mom. Or should i just have my bfs mom call & talk to my mom & tell my mom who it is & why right before I hand her the phone.

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Yes get your bfs mother to call yours, it will absolutely make your folks feel at ease knowing there is an adult with you's who cares just as much for your safety