Do I stay with him or not?
Hey, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore. Lately he has been spoiling me a lot which is nice but in our relationship I feel like he has given me rules.
Everyday when he goes to work, I have to text him on his lunch breaks. If I don't I get into trouble. I have to make him lunch for work every morning, I have to clean the house, wash his clothes, cook him dinner and all that. If I don't I get into trouble. He also wants to have sex everyday and if he doesn't get that then I have to give him other stuff otherwise he is ****ty. Even if he has one day without it, he gets ****ty. If I go out anywhere, I have to tell him where I'm going, what I'm doing and who I'm with. He has already told me that he wants me to be a housewife. I don't want that. I also have certain job industries that I am allowed to work in. He has a real jelousy problem, I can't work with guys and if a guy just looks at me he gets ****ty at me.
I feel like I have rules and I just don't think I'm happy. I'm going to Melbourne tomorrow to see my dad and I don't know if I should come back. If I don't, how do I tell him that?
Please help me!!
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One more thing, I'd tell him over the phone AFTER you're at your Dad's place. I concur with justcurious55, "boyfriend" sounds like he could go off his nut & turn violent. Best give him plenty of time & space afterwards. And don't be fooled by puppy dog eyes, tears & tales of woe. He's bad news-period!