We've been broken up for maybe 4 months now,We talk sometimes,He sometimes flirts,But at other times he acts like he hates me but then again sometimes he stares at me I've asked him to hangout but he's replaced me with weed and that's ALL he does now,

Why would you want him back if all he does is smoke weed?

Why did you break up in the first place?

Sounds like a creep to me. Sorry, but, if I had a dollar for every woman/girl I have ever met that had alot going for them who gravitated to & hung onto complete bastards for boyfriends, I could take everyone here out to lunch on me. Time to move on missy by leaving the pothead in the past.
I'm sure you can do better, you just need the confidence. Good Luck

Sweetheart that's not something you want back at all.

I have an arse hole ex like that, and I'm VERY pleased to have gotten rid of him. He turned abusive. I swore to help any other women who are in/could be in the same situation. Run, while you can!

Focus on getting over him, instead of ways to win him back. There are millions of men better.

Xx Dani G

Why are you wasting your time tripping on the attentions of a pothead?

There are two things that you need to focus on:

1) He keeps running hot and cold
2) He's replaced human relationships with a chemical

Now-keep on running those two facts through your head. The conclusion that you must draw (and it shouldn't be hard to do so) is that you're too good for that. Move on and find someone who will treat you well! Best of luck :)