My work colleague has been seeing my boyfriend behind my back it started when she found him on my Facebook and contacted him annomynously. I seen his number on her phone and now I've tried to finish with him but he still tries to see me none of them know I know. I am really hurting in work as I work in close contact with her and she is forever getting text of him I just feel like crying all the time and don't know what to do

I feel for you,that's not a good place to be.

I would make a clean break with the cheating j**k and make it very clear to him that you want nothing more to do with him.

As for your situation at work,is there some way you could change departments?

If you can't I would suggest you stick to only work related contact with your colleauge-polite but distant,fake it till you make it.

See it as a lucky escape,she's the one who gets the prize-a cheating,lying so-and-so.

Your solution to keep this knowledge to yourself, will never work, tell the guy to F##k off, and go bother whatever her name is, and leave you alone.

Ignore them both, and get a life that YOU enjoy, and go about your business.

Thanks I will finish with the cheat I just thought him meeting me was fated and her meeting him was not as she approached him annomynously to get at me and with her being 15 years younger he is in his elimant. I stupidly thought he had been taken off the right path he was fated to be on and the relationship with her would fail as a result?

Thanks I need to wise up

Good luck.