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  • Mar 14, 2011, 12:21 AM
    gotguts
    Unprotected sex
    I had unprotected sex with my g.f on 7th march... her period date was 2nd march..
    Not taking any risk she took I-pill bt after 80 hrs...
    Today on 14th march she took the urine pregnancy test the ressult of which was negative...
    Is tere any chance that she may b pregnant?
  • Mar 14, 2011, 07:02 AM
    J_9

    The morning after pill is designed to be taken within 72 hours. So she took it a little too late for it to work the way it is intended.

    The test was negative because it was too early for her to take a test. Testing is most accurate AFTER a missed period.

    Please understand that the morning after pill, even if taken as prescribed, is not always 100% effective. If you are not ready to be a father, either quit having sex or use two or more methods of birth control.
  • Mar 14, 2011, 07:10 AM
    adviceishere
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ;
    not taking any risk she took I-pill bt after 80 hrs.....

    In fact you both took a huge risk, as J_9 suggested you should always take extra precaution, there is absolutely nothing out there you can take that is 100% affective, so always use extra or no sex at all.
  • Mar 14, 2011, 10:11 PM
    gotguts
    What can I do to stop pregnancy now as I don't want it now..
  • Mar 14, 2011, 10:11 PM
    gotguts
    Comment on J_9's post
    What can I do to stop pregnancy now as I don't want it now..
  • Mar 14, 2011, 11:45 PM
    J_9

    Well, you actually don't know if she is indeed pregnant yet.

    You will have to wait to see if her next period comes. If not, she needs to test using first morning urine.

    If she is pregnant the two of you will have to discuss your options, keeping the baby, abortion or adoption.

    If she is not pregnant, take this as a learning experience and either stop having sex or use more than 2 types of protection at the same time.
  • Mar 15, 2011, 12:00 AM
    gotguts
    Comment on J_9's post
    What if we don't want to keep it...
    What are the options for abortion..
    I hve heard about medical abortion that involves only pills.. is it safe?
  • Mar 15, 2011, 12:09 AM
    J_9

    Don't put the cart before the horse. Find out if she is pregnant first, and remember that if she wants to have the baby, she is going to. It is her choice what to do with her body.

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