My Girlfriend wants me to go Above and Beyond! How?
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about 13 months now. The first few months were great and everything was going amazing! The past few months though things have been kind of rough. We would always argue over the stupidest stuff and get into fights over it. It was always little things I would do. Me and her only hang out with each other and are always talking or texting when we're not with each other. I will always be accused of looking at or thinking of other girls! I don't even talk to other girls at all but I still get accused! I don't know why! And this past few weeks she has been threatening to leave me. She says I do all these things that bug her and are stupid of me. I sat down and made a list of what I need to change and I've been trying so hard to change these things! I believe I'm making progress and doing some of these things less often, but she insists I'm not and says you're not changing so I'm leaving. And I have to beg her to stay and I tell her I'm changing and I'm stepping it up! I always am the one to text her first and tell her I love her and I miss her and how beautiful she is! I never ever swear at her or put her down but she is constantly swearing and putting me down when she gets mad over these little things. And now the other night she said I never go above and beyond. And she said money doesn't matter because I brought up the fact that I'd take her to a concert but she doesn't let me! She says no save your money. So she says it doesn't have to be spendy it's just about your actions and words. I understand that but I always tell her I love her and I can't stand losing her and she's my whole life, etc etc. I don't know what else she means by going above and beyond. I truly am in love with her and I can't stand losing her! She is my life and my world. What should I do? How do I go above and beyond? Oh yeah and she said I do cute things but she wants romantic. How do I break the barrier of cute and move to romantic and incorporate going above and beyond with my words and actions? Thanks for the help! I really appreciate it!
Comment on adviceishere's post
One thing she also says is she hears the same thing over and over again. I know I say some of the same lines a lot but does it really matter that much?
Comment on redhed35's post
But just the thought of letting her go makes me break down! It's such a hard and horrible thought to me! And a lot of girls would love to love and respect me but I don't want other girls! I want my girlfriend!
Comment on talaniman's post
I just can't see myself living life without her! She's a senior and I'm a sophomore so she's going off to college next year and we told each other we wouldn't be that couple that gives up! I love her and I don't want to leave her or lose her!