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  • Mar 11, 2011, 09:19 AM
    Cindrella4me
    All about arranged love marriage
    Well I am 23 year old girl.My parents are searching proposals for me. While searching we come to one proposal where the boy is also 23 years old... only 6 month elder to me...
    He is exactly the same as I want.. But things won't work. He is an engineer and want to get marry with engineer only... plus they felt both of our's age is same they feel at least there should be 1 or 2 years gap between gal and boy..

    But my problem is that I reallllllllllllllly want to marry with that boy only.
    I know its very stupid thing, but although he rejected still I don't want to see any other proposals... I fall in love with that boy... Dont know how to forget...

    I know all of you might be thinking what's this... but for the first time it happened
  • Mar 11, 2011, 03:00 PM
    talaniman

    Have you met the guy, and talked to him? How do you know its really love so fast?
  • Mar 11, 2011, 04:13 PM
    Cat1864

    The age gap isn't the issue as much as the fact that he isn't interested in you.

    Are you sure that you haven't fixated on him because he doesn't want to marry you? Sometimes we fixate on someone we can't have because it seems safer than looking for someone else.

    If this male had not been brought to your attention, what would you think of the other prospects your parents have found for you?
  • May 16, 2011, 07:57 AM
    shyladym

    Ask him y he rejected you! Maybe he has a secret girlfriend and his proposal was arranged.

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