Confused about boyfriend's mixed messages
Hi everyone,
I have been having a difficult time over the last month and although my boyfriend did try to help me, I pushed him away because I felt pressured by him to be OK. He has a drinking problem too and I was overwhelmed by both mine and his problems. He got patience with me very quickly and decided that he was no longer seeing us as serious or long-term, even though the week before he was talking about making our future plans together. We have had a very intense relationship for 7 months and I have never once pressured him about the future, in fact we never spoke of it.
After some serious rows, we were on a break and simply discussing our problems and going to take some space. Then he says it's over and he can't see a long-term solution anymore and that he's not ready for a relationship now. 4 hours later, he calls to say it was a minsunderstanding because he felt pressured and tired. Now what do I do?
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Heh you are absoulutely righ hun