Okay, well it's kind of weird, but I really, I mean REALLY like this guy, but he will sit there and tell me I am stupid and I have issues, but at the same time when in public he won't be that mean, he'll just have a normal conversation, what's up with this?? He also can share a laugh once in a while, but it just annoys me when he sits there saying I'm dumb and nobody likes me.

I know heaps of people that have been in long lasting realationships and have said that the partner actually was excatullay the same! They have been together for 4 years now! Give it time hun.

We is there chemistry?

That's not very kind, if he says that why do you still have a crush on him? Use your common sense.
People who put you down, you dispose off.

How old are you guys?

Hello darl, this has happened to me too ahha, boys- there disgraceful...
OK I'm oing to be absoloutely blunt with you. He doesn't like you. If he did he wouldve asked you out already, when a guy wants something he will do his best to get it, I strongly recomment you tell him he's dumb and no one like him! Move on, you deserve better.

Hey. I'm no expert but I have actually observed this type of behavior. Although the situation was a bit different (they were in a relationship). It's a kind of a sadistic trait he has. Acting dominance over you. He probably knows you like him. Yet he probably doesn't like you. At least not the kind of "like"anyone would want. I advise as a guy: Don't loose your head. Don't doubt your value as a woman. And get away from him!! This guy is clearly not interested in your happiness.

When you allow bad behavior, you will get more of it. Nip this in the bud before this insecure control freak makes you into his punching bag.

Maybe it hasn't happened yet, but it will as he breaks your confidence, and self esteem down.

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If you sit and let someone talk to ,and disrespect you like that... it may be true.
That is not wise behavior.

Staying with someone like that is even more unwise.

Don't waste any more time on this bully.

You can do much better than this waste of space.