Lost attraction to my wife
I have been struggling over this for the past 5 years. I'm in my early 30's with two kids and am struggling because my wife has gained over 45 lbs since we started dating. I have bugged her about it, tried ignoring it, complementing her about other things, talked to her about how important it is to me about her health... She just doesn't seem to budge. Last night, we were out at dinner and she ate everything while, I couldn't even finish. That just kind of pushed the edge. I am an athlete and eat quite a bit, and to see her out eat me, I was surprised. I justify my eating because of my exercise routine and am extremely in the healthy range.
It may sound really stupid, but this is the one of two factors that may keep me really miserable throughout my marriage.
I think we could have a GREAT marriage, if that was out of the factor.
Will someone help me with this...