Right so there is a guy I like and he is a few years older than me and his sis and I r great frens. He is super nice to me and he is very caring . I think he likes me because my cousin sis ( same age as me ) likes him but he doesn't pay much attention to her . Also, he is always playfully touching me like tapping me on the shoulder for no reason and stuff like that but he is very decent about it . And , we held hands once and he asked for my hand and held it . Now the confusing part : he asked me what I think of him as a potential elder bro!! And I know he is not a playboy because he has never had a girlfriend and he would never do such a thing I'm sure of it and besides he has never told me he likes me sooo what is happening here?? Help ***!!

May I ask what is the age difference?

2 yrs

Well I don't know what teenage brother holds his teenage sisters hand. Maybe he thinks that you see him like a "brother" and he just wants to know straight out because maybe he secretly likes you and wants to makesure this isn't how you see him?

No he isn't my bro :)

Let me get a few things clear here sorry for the misconception in the qns 1. He is not my bro he is my frens bro and he is 2 yrs older Than me and we are good frens but I have a huge crush on him!! ;)

I know 2 years does not seem a lot but is it your 13 and he's 15, or your 10 and he's 12 or 15 and 17?

The actual ages you are make a big difference in the answers you receive.

13 and 15 :)

Sounds like he likes you, but not 'likes you likes you' as in boyfriend girlfriend..

Even if he did, are you allowed date?

Perhaps for now hanging out and having fun is not such a bad idea,having guys as friends is good, it sets the stage for future relationships.

If he pushes the bounderies,stop it, and tell an adult.

Actually don't want to date till maybe 16 and my parents think it's best too and by the way, I forgot to say something else!! (so forgetfull) my own bro and he are frens and I think he likes me because my bro came back from my crush's house one day and said you know" (name) said he ... " and he did not continue and my bro and me are like rivals so if it was something bad he would definitely take the opportunity to insult me :) so I make kind of thinking that the rest of the sentence is "he likes u " because I have read most of the signs and I think it's a yes but is it best if I ask him directly? We both are shy... :)

Maybe just hang out and get to know him as friends, if you ask him directly he may get embarressed be awkward around you then.

Get to know him as a friend,no harm in that.

Okie because we already are good frens

Just one more question : should I ask him if he likes me or not?? ;)