Please help me I don't know what to do I shave sometimes but the just doesn't seem to cut it for long enough! I want to be bare there OK I'm 12 so I don't really feel confortabnle in my body so I want it how it was before this all happened so I won't it gone I have been searching and there is a lot of getting it waxed at a spa or waxing place but I wouldn't be comfortable with that I'm alos not very close with my mom so I don't want to tell her so what do I do please help me!!

There are only a few options, one is shaving, the other is waxing. I wouldn't recommend either at 12.

Sweetie, this is normal and natural. You don't have to be ashamed of it.

When you get older if you want to shave or wax then by all means go for it, but at your age I'm really afraid that you're going to hurt yourself. I'm also very concerned that you seem to be afraid of what's happening to you.

You're growing up, that's all. I can promise you that every girl goes through this, and every woman remembers what it was like. It can be a confusing time, but you'll get through it, and your mom really can help, if you give her a chance. Guess what, she went through it too. :)

If you want to talk about anything here, about why you feel so uncomfortable, we're here to help. The people on this site are great, I'd let my own kids post here. I have a son that's your age, so I do know a bit about the confusion when you get to your age. Also, I was a 12 year old girl once too.

We're here if you have any questions. :)

Thank you for all your help!