My boyfriend doesn't show any affection or even try to impress me anymore. Im upset
I've been with my boyfriend who is also my son's father for 5 years. At the beginning of the relationship he always did nice little things to make me happy. And when we started to have sex, it was very passionate! We used to have sex at least 4 or 5 times a week but now nothing. And I felt like this when I was pregnant and then later on found out he was cheating on me. I confronted him amd he said he was sorry and then said he will change. Although it seemed like he did change, I'm starting to get that empty feeling again like he's cheating on me again. He never wants to have sex, and barely even hugs and kisses me. He also never buys me anything or even tries to do anything to impress me. Its like he's so comfortable with this relationship that he feels like his job is done. I try talking to him about how I feel and he just tells me I'm selfish. Am I selfish?