I've got this problem... I found out one of my friends (or so I thought we were) has been talking about me behind my back... to another one of my friends. She doesn't want me to hang out w/ one of my good friends because they got into a really big fight last year. I want to continue being friends with them both... but I don't know. I'm worreid that I'll ruin our friendship if I confront her about this. Help please!

Well dasha or christine or w/e u want to be called... I don't mind you hanging out with alisha... wut I don't appericate is when you treat me like I'm subhuman (i.e. "aren't you old enough to get dressed by yourself?) I like to be treated as an equal. I went through a year of being garbage and it'll never happen again if I have anything to say about it. I don't hate alisha... she's not my favorite person in the world... but I don't by any means HATE her... I'm just putting 2 and 2 together... if there's another problem, you know that you can always come to me about anything... and I mean anything

I'm here for you girl... luv you

I had a problem like this once with my friends and they all wanted me to ditch my best friend because they didn't like her for awhile. Just stick with your good friend, I have and things turned out great and we found a much better group of friends to hang out with. Just ignore them when they tell you. They still hung out with me even though I didn't dump my best friend. So a good friend is better than someone who is doing this to you

i would choose the one whosse not making u choose and the one whosse more kind but if there both not then get new friends who appreciate you then u will be happy and not sad:D :D :D :D :D :D

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Originally Posted by Dasha_Lynn

ive got this problem....i found out one of my friends (or so i thought we were) has been talking about me behind my back...to another one of my friends. she doesnt want me to hang out w/ one of my good friends because they got into a really big fight last year. i want to continue being friends with them both.....but idk. im worreid that i'll ruin our friendship if i confront her about this. help please!

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Well... that's not what you call a ture friend and if you want to hang out with other people then do so she's not your mother and tell her if you want to keep beein friends you got to start acting like a ture friend and if she's trying to control you then don't let that happin cuae then shell start telling you what to wear or eat if you want this to end hun you have to get some back bone about yourself and tell her you can hang around who ever you want and if she has a proplem with that then whatever she's not a ture friend real friends don't make you choose between your other friends... STAND UP 4 YOURSELF..!