Well let's say you take this girl out that you haven't seen since high school and the day u guys hang out you guy grab a drink then end up being tipsy in your car and you guys are talking but the all of a sudden the girl just kisses you and after five min of making out ............Graphics were edited, ................( so bomb) then I aske If we could do it he said he didn't have a condom so we didn't and then we go to the theaters and it felt like we were going out we were holding hands hugging and kissing he open my doors and everything and we both thought we should hang out again but he hasn't text me and so I'm wondering did I screw up by doing that. I mean I really like him and this was the first time I've done this and so I think he won't take me serious what can I do so he could and should I tell him why I did it and thAt I like him

I'm sorry, such an aggressive approach would make you only a one night stand in my book, most if not all guys prefers girls that doesent give it up straight away..

And if they don't want to wait they arnt good enough for you anyway..

Also I would like to tell you never use sex as a way to get guys to like you, always only do it if you really want to do it!

Yeah I thought :( I was tipsy and horny and because I haven't had some in a whils since my last boyfriend and with this guy I've always had a bug crush on him and never did nothing about till I had the gutts to do it yesterday but in the wrong way you think if I told him the truth and how I feel it would Change anything?

You most likely blew it with this guy... but that's not to say you won't find a nice new date, so can I give my advice on your next date? Yes? OK Lol well you should choose your words a little more carefully. Using words like "eat me out" and "****" and he couldn't find "the hole" sound revolting and your talking to complete strangers on this, so I'm wondering to you talk to friends and boyfriends like this? I can imagine it would be a huge put off to a nice decent guy if you were on a date with him (not talking about the last guy), make yourself a bit more classy and respect yourself and the way you speak, and never do sex on the first date! Good luck :)

He will be back when he can afford a condom, and you can tell him then. You aren't a drunk floozy who is always ready, willing, and able. Geez, what's a guy supposed to think? (should have had a condom in my wallet!).

Its heartening to know though that a guy out there is practicing safe sex.

Yeah, you screwed up pretty bad. But the good news is neither of you has to sweat bullets until your next period.

I know I screwed up send him a text never wrote back </3 too bad