I'm 19 we have been trying to have a baby for 7 months I'm not on birth control and we don't use a condom but so far nothing since we've started my periods have been irregular and the last 3 month they have only been 2 or 3 days light flow but I went in in January to take a blood test and it was negative. But we have still been trying? Why is it taking so long?is there a problem with me?

Seven months of trying isn't all that long.

Does he wear tight jeans? Does he take hot baths or showers? Do you two spent time in hot tubs or saunas?

Are you both healthy, and do you eat properly -- fruits, vegetables, grains/seeds, dairy, protein foods?

Are you trying so hard you are stressed and can't think about much else? Has sex become a demand thing?

No he doesn't wear tight jeans and we take warm showers not hot, were pretty healthy but working on it more so we can get pregnant. I'm not really stressed I'm just worried I can't have one and that stresses me a little.and sex has not been a demand we do it maybe 3 or 4 times a week because of college. I have just been having a few signs like my stomachs kind of hard from my abdomine to the top of my stomach on the right side.the bottom of my stomach hurts sometimes when I lay on my left if I have to pee and don't go right away it hurts I get sick(not throw up but almost) in the mornings and after I eat a couple of smells get to me and I have a clear liquid down below that I get when I sit or stand to long.. but this same thing happened between oct and jan and the blood test was negative. But everyone thought for sure I was and maybe had a misscarriege so I don't know what to do

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Originally Posted by nicolekayla

im not really stressed im just worried i can't have one

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You're just a baby yourself (I'm over 50, so 19 sounds very young), so don't worry about infertility yet. Plus, if you're in school and trying to manage a household, you have a lot on your plate. Maybe finish the schooling first so you have that in your backpack for the future, and then think about a family? Why a baby now when your body is jut beginning to settle down from finally becoming an adult?